the practice of zooming out: contents vs. container

 

whenever I feel overwhelmed by the contents of my mind, or unfocused and uninspired, I try to become aware of its container & conditions, instead. it’s like checking the weather; or observing the state of a garden — instead of living in the weeds of thoughts, things, feelings, plans. I’m sensing into the negative space. the shape of rabbit holes in my mind. if I can give it a form, then I can choose to return to it later, calmly.


what does this practice look like?

perhaps, something as simple as this:

  1. what’s taking up space in my mind? (the contents)

  2. how do these mind-objects feel?

  3. what is the space and environment that holds it? how does it look and feel? (the container)

it’s about traveling to the “meta-layer” of the psyche, rather than slushing through the swamp of thing-ness. if you’re a little bit detail-oriented / obsessive-compulsive / rabbit-hole-friendly, like me, then this practice of detachment can feel like a soothing balm.

 

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